Why Many People Will Not Attend a Spiritist "Spirit Session"

Inspirationally written by Yvonne Limoges and originally published in the July newsletter of
The Spiritist Society of Florida



             It has been our experience after over 22 years of having a Spiritist Center and spirit sessions (which is always open to the general public) that there are very interesting and specific reasons why people, will NOT actually attend. People have told us many of these reasons. Although we try to alleviate their concerns, we must accept the fact that not everyone is ready for the study of Spiritism. They do not attend even though they may be very curious about what happens there, they may want to contact a deceased loved one, some ask us questions later about what happens at the meeting, many receive our newsletters, and some are even mediums. Below are some of these reasons:  

- They believe the mediums will read their minds.      
 
- They believe scary things will happen.
 
- If they come, spirits will follow them home.
 
- They fear the unknown - period.
 
- Embarrassing information about them may be revealed by the spirits to everyone present.
 
- They are afraid about what a spirit may communicate to them and what they may say.
 
- They are afraid of what message a medium may receive for them.
 
- They are afraid of being reprimanded for things they may be doing which are not morally or ethically correct.
 
- Many are afraid of the Spiritist Concept of “personal responsibility” for all our actions, so they are afraid about their incorrect actions being brought to their attention regarding their own personal character, bad habits, etc.
 
- Many are afraid that what Spiritists are teaching may actually be true and then they may have to change their whole way of thinking regarding life and how they behave or suffer the consequences; to them ignorance is bliss.
 
- Many believe in the Spiritist Doctrine but their pride keeps them from attending because they know the more information they know the more responsible they are for their actions.
 
- Those who are mediums refuse to attend because they refuse to practice their faculty of mediumship for various reasons: out of plain fear; lack of self-confidence; they do not want the responsibility; just plain lack of effort on their part; afraid that using their mediumship will require them to become more moral and they do not want to try and change; and/or they may feel unworthy; they do not want to undergo the study and discipline it requires; and/or they may be afraid of suffering spiritual obsession (although this can happen without their attendance).     
                         
In response to the reasons for NOT attending a Spiritist “Spirit Session” we provide the following:

             The Spiritist Session is a most sacred tool performed with the utmost seriousness, solemnity, and religious of intents. All our mediums have over 20 years study, education, training and experience to carry out their sacred duties with sincere pureness of heart and the utmost humility. They never stop studying. They have confidence and faith in their mediumship faculties, extreme faith in the protection provided by their spirit guides and the spirit guides of our Center, and above all else... faith in the OMNIPOTENT CREATOR... FOR WHICH NOTHING HAPPENS WITHOUT HIS WILL, for no one or nothing can disrupt a Spiritist Center when the intent of the mediums and participants is serious, sincere, and conducted in a disciplined and sacred manner and in the name of God.  

             God is All Powerful and All Good and All Justice and Compassion. His Superior Spirit Messengers love us and want us to understand Life’s apparent inequities; they want us to be able to communicate with our loved ones who have gone from this material world; they want us to be convinced about “life” after physical death; they want us to learn more about the Universal Moral and Spiritual Laws of the Universe. They do not want to scare us. They want us to learn! They want to console us! They want us to know why we suffer and how to avoid it in our futures!

             Mediums see, hear, and “pick up” from the spirit world only what is permitted by the superior spirits who are all love and very wise. There is strict control by the superior spirits during a Spiritist Spirit session. People need to realize that spirits are everywhere, not only at Spiritist Sessions. Our loved ones in the spirit world would love to be able to speak with their loved ones (though the mediums) still here in the material world. Good and wise spirit protectors only give advice (through the mediums) in a manner and in such a way that many times only that person can understand the particular message. Our experienced mediums are trained (that is why there is mediumship education classes) to be diplomatic regarding sensitive messages and will speak privately to a particular attendee, when necessary. Many spirit communications are given to attendees in a symbolic manner so only they will know the content and true meaning of the message received. At a proper Spiritist session, nothing is going to happen to scare anyone. Nothing is given from the spirit world to a person in question that they cannot handle. Proper Spiritist Centers (and similiar groups) are pursuing in a serious and sacred manner the Supreme Truths of the Purpose of Life and its Universal Laws. Their Mission is Divine and protected by superior spirits and by Permission from the Creator.  

             But, we must also say that not everyone is ready to investigate or study Spiritism, or the like; but their time will come in another life time. Spiritists should never force our beliefs on others. It can be frustrating at times but, we are all at different spiritual, moral, and intellectual levels.
 
            But for those mediums who refuse to use their faculty (and who know they have it), and who know that they could be providing service to others, and they have access to a place where they may use their faculty properly... they will regret their decision to waste its use, during this existence... May God Bless them!